“There are bound to be challenging, difficult, and trying times in marriage – at those moments when you’re not “happy”, is it time to separate?
“You got married to get your spouse to heaven because you love that person. Now, married life is fun and beautiful, but it’s also hard and difficult. There is suffering. Let me repeat: there will be suffering. Make that suffering redemptive by offering it up. Be merciful to each other, but also encourage each other to become the best version of each other. Remember your goal is to become a saint. (And that’s why “being happy” isn’t necessarily the best piece of marriage advice one can give. How many saints suffered greatly on earth, to enjoy the eternal happiness of heaven?)”
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